The other Day after I wrote my first post “About The Mystic Dom ” , I happened to let a few likeminded friends know that I have taken to blogging. One of the reactions to my first post was “Ohh… You have written that in the Second Person ” .
Yes , I did . Not because it is just a style of writing but because for me there lay a far more deeper meaning . It was more than just a mere twist to a casual flow of words whilst taking liberty of the Queen’s Language . I did so because I am truthful to my Dom Avatar and a real Dom is always second to his sub because his power is a gift from her. .So she becomes the one who is on a higher level of being. After all, in a D/S relationship the “I” and “ME” is rendered meaningless if you can’t respect the “WE” . Generally , according to popular uneducated belief , its considered that the “Dom” has to be the one wielding power whilst his Sub succumbs to his demand . It is his call that drives the flow and she is a mere follower to the process. How only I wish , that those who think like this or propagate this thought process or those who practice the lifestyle in such a way could refrain from doing so. Not only does that puts a negativity to the bigger picture but also makes one learn the art with wrong basics .
What is more important that within the framework of a D/S , the roles are clearly defined but power lies equally in the hands of both souls. Infact , more in her rather than him .
The fact beyond everything else is that a true Dom is a Gentleman first and a Dom later . He should always remember one fundamental rule . Its always lady’s first – whilst opening doors or orgasms. 😉