The other Day after I wrote my first post “About The Mystic Dom ” , I happened to let a few likeminded friends know that I have taken to blogging. One of the reactions to my first post was “Ohh… You have written that in the Second Person ” .
Yes , I did . Not because it is just a style of writing but because for me there lay a far more deeper meaning . It was more than just a mere twist to a casual flow of words whilst taking liberty of the Queen’s Language . I did so because I am truthful to my Dom Avatar and a real Dom is always second to his sub because his power is a gift from her. .So she becomes the one who is on a higher level of being. After all, in a D/S relationship the “I” and “ME” is rendered meaningless if you can’t respect the “WE” . Generally , according to popular uneducated belief , its considered that the “Dom” has to be the one wielding power whilst his Sub succumbs to his demand . It is his call that drives the flow and she is a mere follower to the process. How only I wish , that those who think like this or propagate this thought process or those who practice the lifestyle in such a way could refrain from doing so. Not only does that puts a negativity to the bigger picture but also makes one learn the art with wrong basics .
What is more important that within the framework of a D/S , the roles are clearly defined but power lies equally in the hands of both souls. Infact , more in her rather than him .
The fact beyond everything else is that a true Dom is a Gentleman first and a Dom later . He should always remember one fundamental rule . Its always lady’s first – whilst opening doors or orgasms. 
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“Its always lady’s first – whilst opening doors or orgasms. ;)”
This just made me smile. =)
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I enjoyed reading this post.
xox
A man’s got to do ,what he HAS to do
Indeed….
Simple acts that will allow the girl to feel wanted, safe, and secure in order to give herself completely to Him.
and who could be a better proof of the same more than you and JK
Awww, you just melted me with such warm words.
Thank you MD
xox
What a sight that would be !!! . To visualize a “melted ” Sofia ..
Oh my…. now you got me blushing at the thought of you “visualizing” me….wow.
xox
Totally !!! I am noticing every bit of it ..Every curve and contour !!! Every move !!
Love this post and the sharing of your perspective.
Thank you… I speak what I feel and I write what I believe. Glad you are on the same page